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Old 09-01-2012, 09:37 PM
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Here I am again, another year, Beau would have celebrated her 18th birthday today... It has been very hard, my husband took the day off, we did celebrate it, a trip out, champagne toast to her memory. Still raw lots of tears as well as a few smiles, it was so cruel how she died, no child should have that death and no mother should have to witness it, the only thing good is someone showed a little mercy and I had my son.

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Old 10-01-2012, 06:23 AM
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Oh June,

I cannot imagine the pain that you live with on a daily basis, sending you lots of gentle hugs. It sounds like you celebrated her birthday in a lovely way, and I have no doubt that she was with you the whole day.


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Old 14-01-2012, 10:05 PM
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Thanks for replying to my anguish Sharon.

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June

Sorry only just seen this .

Beau will always be with you, never forgotten. You are right it is something no mother should ever have to witness but far too many have .

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Old 16-01-2012, 04:37 PM
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Dear June,

What a beautiful way to celebrate her memory, no words can really begin to

help heal your pain.

Although I know that all your precious memories will help.

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Old 17-01-2012, 09:06 AM
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June

Big hugs and thinking of you all, words cannot really express how much I feel for you.

Love Sb xxx
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