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Old 14-09-2007, 09:30 AM
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Thumbs down I thought I would be posting happy news
I really thought that today I would be posting happy news instead I am in tears as I m/c again.

I knew when I got to 28 day I'd finally got my bfp and dh have been so happy. I saw the doctor yesterday and he confrimed it and was organising an appointment at the epu to make sure all was well. Last night it all when wrong I started bleeding and it's got worse

I am going to the epu on Monday and I know that they will tell me that it's all over. I keep trying to be logical and that we had given up so I shouldn't be so upset and that it was only 5 weeks but it hurts so much

I can not belive that I could have been so happy just one day and now I feel empty

Thank you for listening

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Old 14-09-2007, 09:36 AM
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((((((Jay))))))

Oh I am so desperately sorry. It doesn't matter whether a baby was planned or not, it doesn't matter how early on it all was. It hurts, I know it does, it hurts so much. Nothing about this journey is logical

Keep talking whenever you need to. Sending lots of love and strength to help you through xxxxx
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Old 14-09-2007, 09:41 AM
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Oh Jay

I don't know what to say, I am so so sorry

Sending (((hugs)))

Take care,

Love
Liz
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Old 14-09-2007, 09:46 AM
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(((((((((Jay))))))))))

I am SO sorry.

Thinking of you and your DH
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Old 14-09-2007, 09:53 AM
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Jay, I'm so sorry. No comfort I know, but maybe now they will do some proper investigations and get you some answers?

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Old 14-09-2007, 10:21 AM
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Jay no wise words I'm afraid but sending a big hug

I'm so sorry, you really must be devastated

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Jay,

How sad..I'm so sorry for you.It's awful
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Old 15-09-2007, 09:24 AM
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Thank you all for your kind words, I'll post in a few days when I feel a little more with it.

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