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Old 16-09-2007, 01:41 PM
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Hi all

Well an eventful day yesterday I'm back home, feeling terrible. Last night the bleeding got very heavy and I fainted, dh phoned the hospital and I went in. The ladies were as alway wonderful and I've had a scan so I know it's more or less over. I found out why I lost this one I have had a kidney infection and that has spread to my womb causing the m/c. It doesn't make it easier but it helps me understand.

I'm back home and taking antibotics and will go back in about aweek for another scan and to check that the infection is clear.

I'm taking a break from the forum for a while I'm not sure how long but I really do need to just heal physically and mentally. I know that I have so much support here but it feels like the right decision.

DH is taking me aways as soon as he can and I think we both need some time with each other

Thank you all for your understanding and support and to all the pg ladies, I'm sending my love and best wishes for a postive outcome if I'm not here

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Old 16-09-2007, 02:41 PM
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(((Jay))

I am so sorry to read your news, I have been away so only just seen your post.. Please take care and come back when you feel better. I know you said you weren't actively ttc but it is very sad to get that unexpected BFP and have it snatched away. On a more positive note you did get pregnant again, not much consolation now but maybe in a while it may give you some hope for a more successful pregnancy.

Love June x
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Old 16-09-2007, 05:52 PM
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jay my thoughts and prayers are with you at this horrid time i wish there was more i could say or do.excpet i know how you feel
take your time to grieve hun and have a relaxing break we will all be here when you get back

Lots of temder love and hugs

tracy xx
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Old 16-09-2007, 06:29 PM
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Dear Jay


Sending you lots of (((HUGS))) and love duing this time.

Jasmine
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Old 16-09-2007, 07:14 PM
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(((Jay)))

Take real good care

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Old 17-09-2007, 09:15 AM
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Jay,

Take the greatest of care of yourself!

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