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Old 20-06-2007, 08:27 AM
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Hello all. Well, not that it was a huge surprise, I'm not pregnant Started bleeding on Saturday so didn't even get to test (although I did one anyway). So, back to the drawing board again. Feeling a bit numb at the moment. Have made an appointment at the clinic for next week to discuss next steps. See if they think it's worth me having another go. I think I would like to try one more time with my eggs and then if that doesn't go, I think we are going down the egg donation route. Part of me really wishes I had a younger sister to ask for an egg, because I'm still scared of the anonymous donor route - I suppose it will take time to get my head around it. We are booked in to see one of the counsellors next week aswell so hopefully talking things through with them will help too. Anyway, I will keep you informed.

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Old 20-06-2007, 08:30 AM
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oh tiger im so sorry,

i was so hoping that with all the latest success on the IVF board that it would be your turn for that BFP as well

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Old 20-06-2007, 08:31 AM
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(((Hugs)))

I am so sorry that it's not good news. Thinking of you

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Old 20-06-2007, 11:50 AM
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Tiger, I'm so sorry. I wish it had been better news. Good luck for next week with the counsellor.

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Old 20-06-2007, 02:13 PM
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Hi Tiger

I am so sorry. It is not fair. I hope you get some decent news soon. I am thinking about you and sending a hug

Take care

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Old 20-06-2007, 02:19 PM
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Tiger - I'm so so sorry. It must be so disappointing for you. I don't know what to say about the donor egg dilema. I might, reluctantly, be going down that route myself but try other options first.

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Old 20-06-2007, 04:03 PM
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Sorry to hear that, Tiger.

(((((Hugs))))).

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Old 20-06-2007, 05:52 PM
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I am so sorry to hear it was bad news. Maybe they will suggest some more tests when you go for your follow-up appointment next week. That's what they did after our 2nd attempt and it was 3rd time lucky for us.

Let us know how you get on.
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Old 20-06-2007, 06:29 PM
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Tiger

So sorry, ((((hugs)))) to you

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Old 20-06-2007, 06:59 PM
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I was sorry to hear your news like others have said maybe next time you will be lucky.((hugs))

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