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Old 14-09-2007, 12:25 PM
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(((Jay))) I'm so very sorry to hear this. It hurts no matter when it happens, take great care of you and dh, your in my thoughts.
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Old 14-09-2007, 05:18 PM
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Oh Jay

I am so very sorry with just finding out and being so happy - it is just so cruel and sad for you and your dh.

It is so unfair and I am sending you a hug

Take care

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Old 14-09-2007, 06:16 PM
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jay i have only just seen this ia m so very very sorry babe i can't believe it i'm gutted for you

sending you big cyber (((hugs)))

lots of love
tracy xx
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Old 14-09-2007, 06:42 PM
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Like ClareOK says, it doesn't matter how early or whether the pregnancy was expected. There's no reason to try to be logical about it -- it isn't a logical thing.


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Old 14-09-2007, 07:31 PM
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Thinking of you Jay, so sorry that you had your happiness taken away from you, miscarriage is so cruel.
Love Rebeccaxx
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Old 14-09-2007, 07:42 PM
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Jay,

I am so sorry to hear your news.

Thinking of you and DH

((((((hugs))))))

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Old 15-09-2007, 09:02 AM
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Oh Jay,

I am so sorry i have only just seen your message Life can be so cruel and unfair. I will be thinking of you.

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Old 15-09-2007, 09:04 AM
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Jay,

How sad..I'm so sorry for you.It's awful
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Old 15-09-2007, 09:24 AM
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Thank you all for your kind words, I'll post in a few days when I feel a little more with it.

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